A friend sent me this. It applies to my generation only vaguely. It does apply to the one born a decade before mine.
Children of the 1930's & 1940's "The Last Ones"
A Short Memoir Born in the 1930's and early 1940's, we exist as a very special age cohort. We are the "last ones." We are the last, climbing out of the depression, who can remember the winds of war and the war itself with fathers and uncles going off. We are the last to remember ration books for everything from sugar to shoes to stoves. We saved tin foil and poured fat into tin cans. We saw cars up on blocks because tires weren't available. My mother received milk in a horse drawn cart. We are the last to hear Roosevelt's radio assurances and to see gold stars in the front windows of our grieving neighbors. We can also remember the parades on August 15, 1945; VJ Day.
We saw the 'boys' home from the war build their Cape Cod style houses, pouring the cellar, tar papering it over and living there until they could afford the time and money to build it out.
We are the last who spent childhood without television; instead imagining what we heard on the radio. As we all like to brag, with no TV, we spent our childhood "playing outside until the street lights came on." We did play outside and we did play on our own. There was no little league.
The lack of television in our early years meant, for most of us, that we had little real understanding of what the world was like. Our Saturday afternoons, if at the movies, gave us newsreels of the war and the holocaust sandwiched in between westerns and cartoons. Newspapers and magazines were written for adults. We are the last who had to find out for ourselves.
As we grew up, the country was exploding with growth. The G.I. Bill gave returning veterans the means to get an education and spurred colleges to grow. VA loans fanned a housing boom. Pent up demand coupled with new installment payment plans put factories to work. New highways would bring jobs and mobility. The veterans joined civic clubs and became active in politics. In the late 40's and early 50's the country seemed to lie in the embrace of brisk but quiet order as it gave birth to its new middle class. Our parents understandably became absorbed with their own new lives. They were free from the confines of the depression and the war. They threw themselves into exploring opportunities they had never imagined.
We weren't neglected but we weren't today's all-consuming family focus. They were glad we played by ourselves 'until the street lights came on.' They were busy discovering the post war world.
Most of us had no life plan, but with the unexpected virtue of ignorance and an economic rising tide we simply stepped into the world and went to find out. We entered a world of overflowing plenty and opportunity; a world where we were welcomed. Based on our naïve belief that there was more where this came from, we shaped life as we went.
We enjoyed a luxury; we felt secure in our future. Of course, just as today, not all Americans shared in this experience. Depression poverty was deep rooted. Polio was still a crippler. The Korean War was a dark presage in the early 1950s and by mid-decade school children were ducking under desks. China became Red China. Eisenhower sent the first "advisors" to Vietnam. Castro set up camp in Cuba and Khrushchev came to power.
We are the last to experience an interlude when there were no existential threats to our homeland. We came of age in the late 1940's and early 1950's. The war was over and the cold war, terrorism, climate change, technological upheaval and perpetual economic insecurity had yet to haunt life with insistent unease.
Only we can remember both a time of apocalyptic war and a time when our world was secure and full of bright promise and plenty. We experienced both.
We grew up at the best possible time, a time when the world was getting better not worse.
We did not have it easy. Our wages were low, we did without, we lived within our means, we worked hard to get a job, and harder still to keep it. Things that today are considered necessities, we considered unreachable luxuries. We made things last. We fixed, rather than replaced. We had values and did not take for granted that "Somebody will take care of us". We cared for ourselves and we also cared for others.
We are the 'last ones.'
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Every generation in its dotage sees its origins as the good old days.
My father-in-law did not make this mistake. He identified America's golden age. It applied to my grandparents' generation, not his: "After indoor plumbing, but before the income tax."
My grandparents grew up without radio. They listened to stories.
They worked from a young age. They spent no time as adolescents. They matured earlier. They gained marketable skills earlier. Society was not sufficiently wealthy to do without their labor. They became important earlier -- a goal most children have from an early age. Most people did not go to high school. They went to work. Or, in the case of farmers, they spent even more time at familiar work.
They mostly moved to cities. "How ya gonna keep 'em down on the farm, after they've seen Paree?" Actually, that applied more to the generation born ten years after my grandparents.
My grandparents grew up without automobiles, moving pictures, sulfa drugs, and any visible federal agency other than the Post Office. My mother's mother lived on a farm. She grew up without electricity.
They never talked to me about any of this. They liked progress. They were not nostalgic about their youth.
HARD CHOICES, NOT HARD LABOR
My grandparents learned to work hard at an early age. They married young.
Adolescence was a 20th-century urban phenomenon. It was the product of rising per capita wealth.
Work gets easier for every generation growing up. But there is a price. Major temptations came earlier. "The devil loves idle hands."
Leisure time increased. Moral decisions came earlier.
There was no threat of backseat passion when teenage boys could not borrow their fathers' cars.
My generation was the first to have enough money in adolescence to create a significant subculture. Rock and roll was bankrolled by my generation. We can date it in retrospect. It began in 1954. Goodbye, Eddy Fisher. Hello, Bill Haley. Eddy sang "O, Mein Papa." Bill sang "Shake, Rattle, and Roll" and then "Rock Around the Clock."
The visible crack in the moral dike came after my generation. I think it was in the 1970's. Those born in the 1960's grew up in a brave new world. Every five years or so, the crack gets larger.
Each generation lives in a world less demanding physically and more demanding morally. But the erosion of moral standards since 1965 has accelerated. Moral markers are constantly pushed back or even buried.
It begins in the public schools. It has ever since 1870. It is reflected on TV.
Today, the rot is available in a smart phone. The X in X-rated movies is PG compared to the Web. There has never been a time like this. It cannot be rolled back.
My grandparents' parents asked them to work long and hard from an early age. They were supervised.
Today's kids do not work long and hard. They are not supervised.
It's bad today. It will be worse tomorrow.
The discipline that matters most today is self-discipline. The others have faded into the background.
Pre-teens are here:
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